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    RE: Planning Committee 

    Fromyaritza burton yaritzaburton@msn.comhide detailsToWillaim Booker *****@****.***

     for the record this is condescending
     
    Although I thought we could organize our class reunion without having a chairperson it is obvious to me at this point that it can not be done. We all have different management styles and the process needs to be stream-lined so that we are not bumping heads. Someone needs to have the authority to make final decisions. I personally have over fifteen years experience as a project manager for the city and the federal government
     
    You have 15 years of experience as if none of us have any experience of anything. Really? I have you to know I am the Manager of NETWORK ENGINEERING. I work for the phone company and have 45 people under me including 3 supervisors and a project Manager so what is that have to do with anything. Did you bother to ask? No, because your to busy talking about yourself.
     
    I am done now..
     

    To: *****@****.***
    Subject: Re: Planning Committee
    From: *****@****.***
    Date: Mon, 18 Jun 2012 19:44:24 -0400

    Finally the real you. No-- you don't comprehend. I asked you-- to point out to me how I was being condescending? What exactly did I say and when?

     

    I didn't ask you your personal opinion of me darling. Cocky is your personal opinion which I can care less about. And I won't respond to you name calling me fake, phony and an ass hole because I'm above that.  Grow up sweetheart.  

    -----Original Message-----
    From: yaritza burton <*****@****.***>
    To: Willaim Booker <*****@****.***>
    Sent: Mon, Jun 18, 2012 6:22 pm
    Subject: RE: Planning Committee

    I didn't leave anything off on any email and you got issues .  Your everything you say your not. Now you really taking this to a whole new  level. You obviously don't comprehend anything. You asked a question on how you  come off condescending and I responded and said you come off cocky. Its very clear to me you are a drama queen .. I can get down right nasty when  provoked. You're a real asshole. Enjoy life because I am . You're fake and phony.  Muriel and I will head the reunion you have been dismissed. Dont contact me ever again. Learn to be a man.
     

    To: *****@****.***
    Subject: Re: Planning Committee
    From: *****@****.***
    Date: Mon, 18 Jun 2012 19:08:14 -0400

    Yes-- calling me cocky is not only offensive but it's inappropriate in any setting. You're the only person being disrespectful. You and Muriel both keep calling me all kinds of things yet you can't tell me one instance where I called you anything. Yes, please talk to Ken.  (Why you're telling me that I don't know or care.) But their you go again-- You said you don't believe in name calling but in your e-mail below you said and I quote "...so if cocky offends you so be it." -- You really need to be real with yourself. You're everything you say you're not.  

     

    (I also noticed how you cut off the rest of the e-mails between us at the bottom because you called me cocky twice-- in fact.) I'll put it back for you-- in case anyone else reads this.  


    -----Original Message-----
    From: yaritza burton <*****@****.***>
    To: claverone1 <*****@****.***>
    Sent: Mon, Jun 18, 2012 5:04 pm
    Subject: Re: Planning Committee
     

    Really? Your going there. I said theres a difference between confident and cocky and your coming off just that. Unbelievable. You dont want drama but your creating it. You are very disrepectful. I am about to talk to Ken and see what his take is on all this because im lost for words. Im very sincere. I dont believe in name calling so if cocky offends you so be it. -----Original Message----- Date: Monday, June 18, 2012 4:31:34 pm To: *****@****.*** From: William <*****@****.***> Subject: Re: Planning Committee If you were sincere, you wouldn't have started off your e-mail with telling me that I'm cocky and than saying "I am not here to judge you" how fucking fake is that. Try again. How about hey Booker-- let's just drop all the drama. I'm sorry for what ever I said or did. Can we finish planning the reunion now? Or, if you want to real-- hey Booker you're an ass and me and Muriel are moving forward without you. Peace-- kick rocks... (At least I would respect the honesty) -----Original Message----- From: yaritza burton <*****@****.***> To: Willaim Booker <*****@****.***> Sent: Mon, Jun 18, 2012 2:23 pm Subject: RE: Planning Committee Willaim, There is a difference with being confident and cocky. I am not here to judge you or anyone else. I have better things to do than to have a email match with someone. I keep a very drama free life, always have. I say this with all the sincerity in my body . I am happy for you that your successful and doing well, but also you do come off as cocky and rude with

    I'LL PUT THE REST OF THE E-MAIL YOU DELETED BELOW:

    with your emails. I don't want to waste anyone's time. If you not willing to get over all this BS than let me know, because as far as I am concern I am over it and said what I had to say. We need to focus at what's on hand and that is the reunion. 

    To: *****@****.***
    Subject: Re: Planning Committee
    From: *****@****.***
    Date: Mon, 18 Jun 2012 10:07:10 -0400

    You keep saying I'm being degrading, please for the life of me point out to me how? What exactly did I say and when?  

     

    Don't get it twisted I'm not upset. You don't have that much power. I just don't like drama. I sent the e-mail because of the phone call that you made. And I'm sure Muriel can speak for herself. She never once apologized to me. You guys keep commenting on me being condescending but you're taking it the wrong way. You called yourself trying to help-- I got that. You apologized for stepping on my toes as you put it. All I asked is for someone to take control and you guys act like I asked for a finders fee. Please... 


    -----Original Message-----
    From: yaritza burton <*****@****.***>
    To: Willaim Booker <*****@****.***>
    Sent: Mon, Jun 18, 2012 8:21 am
    Subject: RE: Planning Committee

    William,

    It's obvious that you think your not being degrading, but you are . I am passed it. I don't hold any grudges at all. Life is too short for all that BS. I just recently overcame cancer, and proud to say I am a cancer survivor. I also lost a daughter in a car accident  a few years back. Life is too short to be childish. There is nothing wrong with being confident at all. You're upset because I made a call and we work as a team. You blew up on that phone call. I couldn't get in a word without being interrupted by you. I said lets move forward and we are all passed it and than you turn around and send an email stating we cannot get along. Again, this is not that serious. You're calling out Muriel , but you don't look at yourself first. There are ways to express yourself without being condescending. You blew up because I was trying to help, and again we still don't have a venue picked out and this is June 18th. We can work together as we are doing now or not. That is up to you. I am done with this whole thing. I only volunteered so that we can have a memorable reunion not trying to get any type of credit for it. As far as drama , you're creating drama. Let's get passed this whole thing and work together like we said in the first place and move forward. We are wasting time.
     

    To: *****@****.***; *****@****.***
    Subject: Re: Planning Committee
    From: *****@****.***
    Date: Mon, 18 Jun 2012 08:35:37 -0400

    First and foremost, the two of you are taking this way too personal. We can agree to disagree. It's only business. I have said nothing to either one of you that is disgracing or insulting. If you think I did please point it out to me. And to keep it real, if I was trying to insult you I certainly would not have said-- "I am confident that we can continue to work together to host one of the most enjoyable and memorable reunions for our class. Thank you for your understanding."-- my comments would have been far different. 

     

    The truth is, Muriel comments to me over the phone were very offensive and inappropriate. I quote "I called Tracy out and I'm calling you out Booker." First of all Tracy quit because she wanted to not because Muriel "called her out."-- that's fantasy. You keep committing about me having an ego. Yes, I'm a very confident brother. I have every reason to be and if you're offended about it get over it. I'm quite sure we have all worked with people with so called ego's. I think you have a ego yourself Muriel but I ain't "calling you out" because it's who you are. Who cares, at the end of the day. It is what it is... a three hour event. Get on with it.  

     

    More over, I don't have anything to prove to either one of of you. And I'm not trying to impress you with things I've done or people I know. I only mentioned my work with the city because I wanted you to know that I have some experience that's all nothing more. You're reading into it too much.

     

    And as far as me wanting to be the chairman, it came only after that nasty phone call I got from you guys. It's not uncommon that reunion committees have a chair-- just because Tracy worked without one last time don't mean we couldn't have one. Honestly, I didn't care who it was I just didn't want anymore problems i.e. crazy phone calls. You could have said, ok Booker since you think we should have a chairman-- I vote for Muriel and the discussion would have been over. I would have worked with both you guys knowing that if something went wrong she made the final call.  Again-- you're reading too much into it. Not an ego thing. Just a-- I don't want any drama thing.   

     

    Let's be clear you can certain decide at this point to work with me or without me. I don't care one way or the other. It's your decision.  

     

    P.S. ...And I don't think I'm superior than either one of you. We all graduated from the same school for God sake. College degrees don't necessarily make us better people-- people do.

    I'm quite sure Tracy had a college degree but she was also ignorant as hell. It's ironic to me that Rodney King died yesterday--all I can think of-- "Can we all just get alone."          

    -----Original Message-----
    From: yaritza burton <*****@****.***>
    To: Muriel Mcdonald <*****@****.***>; Willaim Booker <*****@****.***>
    Sent: Sun, Jun 17, 2012 10:28 pm
    Subject: RE: Planning Committee

    William,
    Lets us know what your deciding to do at this point. When Tracy was heading this up, she wasn't the chairperson. She said that herself. I have to agree with Muriel you have been very condescending and it's not necessary. You said you have 15 years experience as a project manager for the city and  federal government, but you haven't done anything yet. You talk the talk about  what you do and how you have so many contacts, and you have done this before but at a higher scale , yet you can even get a venue together and we are still waiting. I really had to read your email 4 times just to make sure that I was not reading MORE into this. It's very insulting, to say the least, that you feel the need to feel your superior than us both. William, just so you know, Muriel and I both have degrees and it doesn't take a rocket scientist or someone of your caliber as you claim to get a bunch of people together. We can continue to work as a team, or like you said majority rules. If you cannot work as a team, and put your ego aside, than Muriel and I will take over. You need to really get off your high horse and come back to reality because you have taken this too far. 
     

    To: *****@****.***; *****@****.***
    From: *****@****.***
    Subject: Re: Planning Committee
    Date: Sun, 17 Jun 2012 13:50:34 -0500

    Wow. Really. Now it's official u have over stepped your boundaries. Ego is in full effect at this point!!!! I do recall u saying you wanted to help out like we all agreed to be a team & salvage the reunion. We r team players, there is no boss here. This is volunteer work & there is no boss William. If u wanted to run things u should have been upfront & honest & not pretending to be something you are not!!!! Enough is enough!!!  You have shown your true colors. U have a problem. Do what u need to do William Booker. Unbelievable. I don't take kind to insults from a dude like u. Only people who are trying to impress people with their alleged accomplishments by trying to name drop & impress people need to look in the mirror & do some soul searching. U ain't all that. If u were the world would know all about u. I've put up with your degrading comments enough. You have really lost your mind. 
    Muriel Davis-McDonald

    Sent from my HTC smartphone on the Now Network from Sprint!

    ----- Reply message -----
    From: "yaritza burton " <*****@****.***>
    To: "*****@****.***" <*****@****.***>, "*****@****.***" <*****@****.***>
    Subject: Planning Committee
    Date: Sun, Jun 17, 2012 12:51 pm


    William that is not even necessary. I strongly believe you just want to run things yourself. We can continue the way it is not understanding what the big issues is. Thats fine you have all the experience and we are happy but this is a reunion not no full out chicago event.
    -----Original Message-----
    Date: Sunday, June 17, 2012 12:36:26 pm
    To: *****@****.***;*****@****.***
    From: William <*****@****.***>
    Subject: Re: Planning Committee

    Yaritza and Muriel, per our conversation (3-way-call) on 6/15-- it is my personal belief that a chairperson needs to be elected. Although I thought we could organize our class reunion without having a chairperson it is obvious to me at this point that it can not be done. We all have different management styles and the process needs to be stream-lined so that we are not bumping heads. Someone needs to have the authority to make final decisions. I personally have over fifteen years experience as a project manager for the city and the federal government. If you are not opposed to me being the chairman I am willing and able to assume the responsibility-- if not please let me know before I proceed any further. I am confident that we can continue to work together to host one of the most enjoyable and memorable reunions for our class.  Thank you for your understanding.


    Sincerely
    William Booker    


    -----Original Message-----
    From: William <*****@****.***>
    To: yaritzaburton <*****@****.***>; murielmcdon

     

     

     

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